Soooo my recent ex is dating an old ex of mine, whom I up until recently
spoke to, not anymore, for obvious reasons, which has led to the invite of another old ex of mine…. So ex-communication it is then :/
Hello there to anyone who decides to read this…
Recently watched the Glee episodes where “Fin” tells “Santana” that its okay to be gay, to be herself and that no matter what happens on the outside, the whole Glee club is there for her to support her and accept her for who she is…
Watching that, took me back when I was in school, when I came out…. I wasn’t so lucky, to have supportive friends… I came out to my best friend, who became my girlfriend “ex now for over 5 years”… And thinking that she’d keep it a secret, she told all our friends (10+ friends)… I had to deal with that pretty quickly, and I did, I thought oh well, just my friends know, no harm, no foul…
Little did I know that soon the whole school knew about me, and they weren’t to kind about it either, I didn’t get ridiculed directly though, thank eff for that!! I did however have to adapt to the constant looks, gossips and girls being scared just to look at me….
Soon after, me and my “ex” started dating… I basically forced her out and about, no regrets, she was amazing and still is… We still talk and stay in contact… Anyway, thought we could keep that a secret, what a waste of thought, ey?
Yup, the whole school knew that too… Its not that I didn’t mind the snotty comments or the enduring looks that we got, I mean it gets to that point where you just say enough now, ok? Like find something better to gossip about ffs?
Anyway, we lasted 2 years, we broke up, shit happened and well yeah our parents found out the harsh way, that sucked balls… But we made it through….. SO MY POINT IS, THAT IT ACTUALLY DOES GET BETTER…
For those who get bullied in school or where ever about being gay, being who you are… Don’t ever let it get to you!! It does get better, and they only act out because they are confused and ignorant about it!! We as humans still have a lot to learn about being true to ourselves, being who we are and not being afraid to let it shine!
GAY IS OKAY !!!!!










